Monday, March 29, 2010

Being a Mommy...

Children are the ultimate best gift in the world. They bring so much joy to their parents. One of the best feelings in the world is receiving love and compassion from your child. It crowds me with misunderstanding how and even worse why some mothers rid or harm their children selfishly. Out of spite, used as leverage and for various other excuses claimed as reasons, some mothers do not understand the life they are destroying. Your child did not ask to come into this world nor is he the reason for your hardship. Granted, unfortunately women are raped and become pregnant. Even so, proper execution of that fetus could be easily managed by such member seeking appropriate resources and help to care for their fetus correctly. What is it going to take to stop these women from murdering their babies? How many trash chutes, wooded areas and heat-exhausted car cases are going to occur for it to be enough? Where is our justice as good mothers to penalize these criminals? Regardless of where we came from, how we got here or what we have planned for our future, as a parent you are depended on. No dollar or materialistic value will compensate for the love between a parent and their child and it should never be taken for granted. Society has led us to believe it is okay to rid of our problems when it becomes too much to handle. Don't believe it. Love your children, believe in self-enhancement and love your child for they will adore you in return. This is dedicated to my babies Tyler Logan and Elijah Lucas. Mommy "yuv's" you!

Freedom

Freedom from the mind of a young adult is like the mind of a newborn baby. In every different culture, every different background, a child becomes an adult after a certain age of existence. Life seems brand new and gives you the opportunity to start fresh. From her on our, every decision you make is a new reflection of your future, not your past. Some feel the opposite. Some opposite believe their past directly reflects their future. Life is that grand that you're able to make mistakes and rectify situations. I wear mu heart on my sleeve. I feel for others at the same time I want to help and heal them with whatever it takes. That ultimately has both positive and negative benefits. The positive benefit is that naturally you are admired and can always feel like you are doing something good for others. The negative side is that you ma be brought down by others negativity. I wouldn't praise or preach the way I am doing if I couldn't speak from personal experience. Naturally we are susceptible to think that if a series of problems occurs as in a domino theory, that our world is coming to an end. Society can lead us to believe that once you're doomed, you're damned. Retroactively, positive reinforcement and inner happiness would have you laughing at those same problems. Keep your chin up, realize that your life could always be worse and waste more time enjoying life rather than always wondering why. It takes too long...